Get A Career & Life You Love

Practical Tips for a Successful Career Change

Get A Career & Life You Love - Practical Tips for Career Change

Are you feeling fed up, trapped or unfulfilled in your current job?

Do you lack the time, money or experience to change anything?

Are you desperate to do something more meaningful?

If so, this book is for you.

With Get a Career & Life You Love you will:

  • Identify any limiting beliefs or obstacles preventing you from changing career.
  • Identify your values, skills, strengths, interests and working preferences.
  • Explore the career options available to you
  • Create an action plan and outline practical steps for your career change
  • Maintain a positive, motivated mindset to overcome any challenges you may encounter

Using a five-step programme, the book provides practical steps you can take to ensure your career change is as smooth as possible.

It contains more than sixty tips to help you successfully plan your career change, and ultimately create a career and life you love.

The book is available to purchase in paperback and e-book format via the Amazon links below.

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Put Yourself First: 5 Effective Steps to Practice Self-Love

Put Yourself First: 5 Effective Steps to Practice Self-Love

You would think that it would be the most normal thing in the world to act lovingly towards ourselves. After all, most of us have no difficulty acting lovingly towards others.

Granted, the way in which we express our love towards others will be different for all of us, however, the bottom line is that we most of us find it far easier and more natural to share our love with others.

Why is this? Why is it so difficult to put yourself first?

In this post, I will share 5 effective steps to practice self-love.

Your default response to the people in your life will determine your ability to practice self-love

Many of us are not even consciously aware that we do not act lovingly towards ourselves. In fact, it is not something that we even think about.

How often do you ask yourself how am I feeling?

I’m guessing not very often.

Yet, how often will you think of a friend or family member and say to yourself, “I must check in with so and so to see how they’re doing”?

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Are you you discounting your gifts and talents?

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“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

OMG! Your hair looks so good. 

That was the start of my Monday morning this week.

No, I hadn’t perfected my twist out; I had noticed one of my colleagues rocking her hair in it’s natural state with mini twists.

I’ve worked with her for almost six years and the entire time she’s always worn weave or hair extensions.

When I started working with her, my hair was natural but  I always wore my hair straight. Two years years ago however, I stopped straightening my hair and began wearing it in its natural curly state.

As long as I’ve worked with her, my colleague has always commented on my hair and we’re always complementing each other on our outfit choice for the day.

She would always say that she’d love to “go natural” but that her African hair was “too hard and kinky”. I would always encourage her and say that was just what she had been conditioned to think.

Anyway, back to Monday morning.

I asked my colleague what inspired her choice … Read more

In Search of a Creative Orgasm

in search of creative orgasm

“The thing is most people are afraid to step out, to take a chance beyond their established identity.” – Demi Moore

Have you ever felt sexually frustrated?

You know, when you want need that hot, steamy and passionate connection with someone you fancy the pants off, but they’re not around to satisfy your needs?

Or worst yet, when you’re in a committed relationship, but it’s gone stale and it’s been a hot minute since you really experienced ecstasy?

Well, that’s how I’m currently feeling!

No, not about my bedroom activities, but about my creative desires.

I’m creatively frustrated.

And I have been for a very long time.

The fairy tale

In my case, I’ve been in a committed relationship with Society and the spark died a long time ago.

In fact, I’m not sure there was ever really a spark.

Society was my reliable and safe “Knight in Shining Armor”.

I grew up being told that Society was the perfect catch.

I spent my childhood being groomed for my relationship with Society so when it eventually happened, I knew what I was getting.

I knew what was expected of me in the relationship and I always knew where I stood.… Read more

30 Motivational Quotes by Women on Being Authentic

motivational quotes by women on being authentic

“I can be a better me than anyone can.” – Diana Ross

Over the past few months I’ve been participating in writing courses with Lisa Lister, GG Renee and Susannah Conway.

The focus of all the courses is to become a more authentic writer.

I’ve been aware for a long time that my writing does not accurately reflect my personality. My authentic voice has been stifled for a long time and I wanted a way to access it and sound more like me.

Finally I have begun to shed many of the layers that have been hiding my authentic voice and I’ve started experimenting with my writing.

I’m now writing on my personal blog, which I created in November but had only written 2 posts for.

Writing in my authentic voice makes me feel vulnerable and it’s scary. However, it’s something I have a deep urge to do.

I’ve been thinking about all the ways we limit ourselves and suppress who we truly are.

If you’re anything like me, you just want to be yourself, but struggle daily to meet the expectations and demands of the world around you.

So to kick-start June, I wanted to share … Read more

10 Random Things You May Not Know About Me

10 random things you may not know about me

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” – Bruce Lee

I’ve been doing a lot of reflection lately, about all aspects of my life.

One area I’ve been thinking about is this blog. I feel like I’m quite closed and professional and I’d like to inject more of my personality.

For a long time, having the title Career and Life Coach has felt like a huge responsibility; as though I should have all the answers and always provide solutions for potential challenges you may be facing in life.

The thing is, I don’t have all answers. In fact, I’m not actually sure if I have any.

I do however, have my own personal life experiences, lessons I’ve learned and strategies that I use that sometimes work, and sometimes don’t.

So I thought it would be nice to share some random things about me that you may not know, which will hopefully give you a bit more insight into me and make me feel more like a real person, rather than a stranger hidden behind words and a laptop screen.

1. I hated university

I spent … Read more